There’s nothing quite like an adults-only escape, especially when you don’t have to travel far to enjoy it. Luckily, South Jersey is surrounded by luxurious hotels, cozy resorts, and relaxing retreats that make it easy to plan a getaway with your significant other or closest friends. Whether you’re dreaming of a peaceful stay near the shore, a charming countryside retreat, or a stylish city escape, we’ve rounded up the best spots so all that’s left to do is book your stay. From world-class spas and incredible dining to culture, nightlife, and plenty of ways to unwind, these luxe getaways in and around South Jersey are worth adding to your must-visit list. (feature photo credit: NJ MOM)
Romantic Getaways In South Jersey

Hotel LBI
Consider this your home-away-from-home shore house, but with world-class amenities. In the summer, use the beach passes and bicycles to your heart’s content and let the hotel staff help you plan a memorable fishing, surfing, or boating day. When you’ve had enough fun in the sun, head back “home” for sunset views and rooftop cocktails or a dip in the indoor pool with a retractable roof that opens on warm days. Make sure you check out their list of happenings and events at the hotel during your stay.
Rates start at $169
350 W. 8th Street, Ship Bottom, NJ 08008
Ocean Casino Resort
A posh modern resort with a prime spot overlooking the Atlantic, Ocean Casino Resort is all about luxury with a side of action in one place. After you check into your well-appointed room with panoramic views, you can get ready for a night on the town without leaving the premises. Dine at one of the three elegant restaurants, all with stunning windows that put you in view for sunset— Amada with a tapas-style menu; Linguini by the Sea for fresh seafood options; the newly opened Chez Frites for bistro French fare; or Ocean Steak for a steakhouse experience—before stopping by the tables for a thrilling night of casino games or round at the Ocean’s 18 Mini Golf featuring state of the art holograms and immersive technology. Late night, catch live music at Nola’s Lounge or get down at the HQ2 two-level nightclub. And did we mention they have a 40,000-foot spa with a soothing Himalayan Salt Cave and an indoor/outdoor pool open all year round overlooking the waves? More reason to stay a while.
Rates start at $99 a night.
500 Boardwalk, Atlantic City, NJ 08401
The Reeds at Shelter Haven
Relax by the sea in the quaint town of Stone Harbor at this contemporary oasis emphasizing pretty bay views and a richly appointed home-away-from-home feeling, with a cozy fireplace, roof garden sundeck, and elevated cuisine at one of the five restaurants on-site. During the summer, there’s a beach butler at your disposal when you want to head to the ocean side (providing you with chairs and lunch should you request it). Don’t miss the sumptuous Salt Spa with Brine Light Therapy and a Turkish Bath.
Rates start at $129
9601 Third Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
The Virginia
With a sweetspot location in historic downtown Cape May, this adults-only seaside boutique hotel is the kind of destination that feels like you landed in a swank friend’s beach home. Rooms are posh with luxe Belgian cotton sheets and decorated in soothing tones and modern beach cottage style. Spend your mornings enjoying coffee on the porch, then when the sun sets, cozy up by the fire in the living room downstairs and play a game of gin rummy while enjoying a cocktail from the chic, Brit-style bar in the adjoining Ebbit Room, a renowned gourmet dining destination. Want more activities? Head to Congress Hall (their sister resort) to the full-service spa decked out in yellow and white striped cabana-style rooms, or settle into a lounge chair with waitstaff at the beach by the ocean.
Rates start at $152
25 Jackson Street, Cape May, NJ 08204
Other Romantic Getaways All Around New Jersey

Asbury Ocean Club Hotel
At this luxe seaside escape, you’ll feel like you jetted away to somewhere amazing on the other side of the world. But no, you just traveled down the Garden State to paradise. With an infinity pool that faces the ocean, an all-glass dining and lounge space that looks like it’s floating on water, gorgeous suite or loft accommodations, and a spa with sea-inspired treatments, you can’t help but be wowed by this stunning space, listed as one of the top hotels in New Jersey in the Michelin Guide.
Rates start at $381
1101 Ocean Avenue, Asbury Park, NJ 07712
Crystal Springs Grande Cascade Lodge
If you like to stay active, this Adirondack-style lodge with spectacular Kittatinny Mountain views will keep you busy from the moment you check in. Play a round of golf at one of 6 championship golf courses or work on your game at the on-site academy. Squeeze in some basketball, pickleball, or personal training before heading to the biosphere pool complex with a tropical aquarium and a vortex pool. For warm-weather dining, eat al fresco on the Chef’s Garden patio, where you can indulge in dishes just picked from the neighboring garden, and wine connoisseurs will appreciate the world-renowned wine cellar. Make sure you check out their calendar of special events to attend during your stay.
Rates start at $529
3 Wild Turkey Way, Hamburg, NJ 07419

Pendry Natirar
As you drive along the winding road, the hilltop turn-of-the-century estate that once belonged to the King of Morocco comes into view. You’ve entered the grand and newly established Pendry Natirar, where a night of luxury and soothing country views makes you feel like you landed in the English countryside. Rooms are gorgeously appointed with gentle greens and marble bathrooms. Take a seat with a view in the cozy Ladd’s Tavern, spend your day basking in the gardens, decompressing in the world-class spa, taking a hike on the nearby trail, or hanging out by the pool. At night, dine at Ninety Acres, a farm-to-table restaurant with an open kitchen and chef-driven menu.
Rates start at $700
400 Natirar Drive, Peapack, NJ 07977

The George
The impeccably renovated and meticulously curated early-1900s mansion-turned-boutique hotel is the brainchild of iconic makeup artist Bobbi Brown and her husband, Steven Plofker. After exploring Montclair’s art museum, area gardens, antique shops, galleries, and first-rate restaurants, get cozy with a glass of wine in the hotel’s library or curl up in front of your room’s beautiful fireplace. If you bring your dog, he’ll get comfy in his doggie bed and relish his VIP treatment, too.
Rates start at $379
37 N. Mountain Avenue, Montclair, NJ 07042
The Peacock Inn
Dating back to the 1700s, The Peacock Inn has many historical touchstones—it was once a meeting place for the members of the original colonies, operated as a Prohibition-era speakeasy, and hosted noteworthy guests, including Albert Einstein. The Inn has undergone a sophisticated upgrade since those days, with luxury amenities including rain showers, heated bathroom floors, and flat-screen TVs. The elegant restaurant features creative farm-to-table cuisine from nearby farms and purveyors.
Rates start at $355
20 Bayard Lane, Princeton, NJ 08540
W Hoboken
If you’re looking for the best view of New York City, the W Hoboken is located on the waterfront with easy access to the PATH and NY Waterway Ferry, making it simple to take a trip into Manhattan. Rooms are serene, with muted blue tones and stunning views of NYC. Up for a workout? Hit FIT, a 1,520-square-foot gym, or take a class at YOGARENEW, the W’s partner studio. When you’re ready to indulge, enjoy a delicious meal at Halifax and end the night with a cocktail in The Living Room. Don’t miss out on their Whatever/Whenever® service, precisely as it’s labeled—the hotel will accommodate you with anything you want, any time during your stay.
Rates start at $411
Currently undergoing renovations, but the hotel remains open, 255 River Street, Hoboken, NJ 07030
Romantic Getaways In Philadelphia
Morris House Hotel
Tucked away on a quiet historic street, Morris House Hotel feels like a hidden romantic retreat in the middle of the city. This charming boutique hotel dates back to the 1700s and features cozy rooms filled with antique details and colonial-era character. Together you can enjoy a complimentary afternoon tea in the lovely garden courtyard before walking to nearby historic attractions like Independence Hall and Society Hill restaurants. Its intimate atmosphere and peaceful setting make it one of Philadelphia’s most romantic hidden gems.
Rates start at $260
225 S. 8th Street, Philadelphia, PA 19106
The Bellevue Hotel
The Bellevue Hotel combines historic charm with classic romance right along Philadelphia’s Avenue of the Arts. You can spend the day exploring nearby theaters, boutique shopping, and charming cafes before retreating to the hotel’s beautifully restored rooms. The grand architecture and elegant interiors create an old-Hollywood feel that’s perfect for a romantic staycation. Head upstairs for breathtaking city views and enjoy a cozy evening together after a night out in the theater district.
Rates start at $320
200 S. Broad Street, Philadelphia, PA 19102
The Rittenhouse
The Rittenhouse is ideally situated right across from Rittenhouse Square Public Park, making it easy to explore most major sights. Spend your day strolling from the Liberty Bell to the Rocky Steps with ease. After a fun-filled day of sightseeing, treat yourself to a relaxing afternoon tea at the charming Mary Cassatt Tea Room. Then, indulge in the spa’s Signature Couples massage or unwind in the indoor pool, sauna, and steam room. Feel like a pampering session? Get your hair styled at the on-site salon—you’re all set to enjoy a delicious meal at the renowned Scarpetta restaurant and sip cocktails at the cozy Library Bar downstairs.
Rates start at $553
210 W. Rittenhouse Square, Philadelphia, PA 19103